Man- that totally sucks. I get anxious when a package takes a week to arrive and I am domestic. There are several threads lately about postal problems. It seems like the general consensus if you sell something you are responsible to refund the money even if that is an inconvenience of being the seller. Were your packages insured? My understanding is that when the package is insured and a claim is to be made the seller has to make the claim not the buyer. In the meantime the seller usually refunds the money to the buyer and waits for the refund from the PO...

I am sorry you are feeling lonely about this...